Episode Summary
In this thought-provoking episode of Making Sense of Faith, Adam Hamilton tackles perhaps the most challenging question people face on their spiritual journey: Does everything happen for a reason? Drawing from his pastoral experience, Adam offers a fresh perspective that bridges faith and doubt, challenging the common notion that God micromanages every detail of our lives. Instead, he presents a view of God who created natural processes and gave humans freedom, yet walks alongside us through our suffering. This conversation invites everyone to reconsider comforting but potentially harmful phrases like “everything happens for a reason” or “it must be God’s will” when confronting life’s painful moments.
Key insights from this episode:
- God created processes, not puppets – Adam challenges the perception that God controls every detail at the cellular, cosmic, and personal levels. Instead, he suggests God created natural processes that generally work well but sometimes go wrong, and gave humans genuine freedom to make choices—both good and bad.
- Why “everything happens for a reason” hurts – Through powerful stories like Patty’s experience after losing her two-year-old daughter, Adam reveals why well-meaning platitudes can actually increase someone’s pain and anger toward God by making Him the source of suffering rather than comfort.
- Jesus healed, He didn’t explain – If sickness were God’s will, Adam points out, Jesus wouldn’t have healed people—he would have told them to accept their illness as divine punishment or teaching. Instead, Jesus consistently worked against suffering, showing God’s true desire.
- Prayer works, just not how we expect – Rather than always delivering dramatic miracles, God typically answers prayers through people, medicine, and compassion. Adam shares how he prays for both miraculous healing and for God to work through doctors, revealing a balanced approach to faith and practical action.
- Finding meaning without blaming God – Adam offers a powerful reframing of Romans 8:28, suggesting that God doesn’t cause suffering but works to bring good from it—an invitation to ask “how can something meaningful come from this?” rather than “why did God do this?”
When life’s hardest moments leave us questioning where God is, this episode offers a lifeline of hope without sacrificing intellectual honesty. Adam stands firmly in what the Resurrection community calls “the radical center”—acknowledging the reality of suffering while affirming God’s loving presence through it all. Whether you’re wrestling with doubt, seeking deeper understanding, or supporting someone through grief, this conversation provides language and perspective to make sense of faith when life seems senseless. Listen to the full episode to discover a God who doesn’t cause your suffering but promises to walk with you through it.
Go Deeper
Why? Making Sense of God's Will
Adam Hamilton
Where is God when tragedy and suffering strike?
When the ground shakes, and a poor nation’s economy is destroyed; when the waters rise, washing away a community’s hopes and dreams; when a child suffers neglect and abuse; when violence tears apart nations where is God? If God is all powerful, and if each one of us is a beloved child of God, then how can God allow tragedy and suffering to mar his creation?
In Why?, best-selling author Adam Hamilton brings fresh insight to the age-old question of how to understand the will of God. Rejecting simplistic answers and unexamined assumptions, he lays out core ideas for comprehending God’s plan for the world, including:
- God will not take away our free will, even when we use it to grieve him.
- God will never abandon us, especially in the midst of our suffering.
- While God is not the author of suffering, God will bring blessing out of tragedy.