The Golden Rule Defined Jesus' Whole Mission (and Ours)
Daily Scripture
Matthew 7:12, Mark 10:35-45
Matthew 7
12 Therefore, you should treat people in the same way that you want people to treat you; this is the Law and the Prophets.
Mark 10
35 James and John, Zebedee’s sons, came to Jesus and said, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask.”
36 “What do you want me to do for you?” he asked.
37 They said, “Allow one of us to sit on your right and the other on your left when you enter your glory.”
38 Jesus replied, “You don’t know what you’re asking! Can you drink the cup I drink or receive the baptism I receive?”
39 “We can,” they answered.
Jesus said, “You will drink the cup I drink and receive the baptism I receive, 40 but to sit at my right or left hand isn’t mine to give. It belongs to those for whom it has been prepared.”
41 Now when the other ten disciples heard about this, they became angry with James and John. 42 Jesus called them over and said, “You know that the ones who are considered the rulers by the Gentiles show off their authority over them and their high-ranking officials order them around. 43 But that’s not the way it will be with you. Whoever wants to be great among you will be your servant. 44 Whoever wants to be first among you will be the slave of all, 45 for the Human One [or Son of Man] didn’t come to be served but rather to serve and to give his life to liberate many people.
Daily Reflection & Prayer
Jesus didn’t just mention the Golden Rule once and then return to “business as usual.” We find it everywhere in his life and example. James and John expected Jesus to set up an earthly political kingdom and thought it wise to apply for the top jobs in that kingdom. Jesus didn’t just say they should have been more tactful. He said sharp-elbowed human status-seeking utterly missed what his kingdom is about. As he explained that serving others defined his entire mission and is the path to greatness in his kingdom, one scholar noted, “Jesus is redefining power itself.” * How did Jesus’ teaching to James and John connect to the Golden Rule? Jesus lived the Rule by treating us far better than we deserve—serving rather than demanding service, giving his life rather than taking ours. He called his followers to the same radical other-centeredness.
- In law, business or politics (and much too often in committed personal relationships), we most often hear the idea that we ought to treat people according to what they deserve. Jesus spoke of treating people as God treats us, with grace and generosity even when we don’t deserve that (cf. Romans 5:6-8, 2 Corinthians 5:19-21). What good things can happen in a marriage or other close relationships when love and grace replace “deserving” to guide us in mutual love and sharing?
An essential clarification: “mutual” is key here. Grace doesn’t mean accepting abuse or control. As Pastor Hamilton wrote, “Harming our mates, physically or emotionally, or controlling and demeaning them, is the exact opposite” ** of Christ-like love. Grace in relationships means both people treating each other with undeserved kindness, not one person endlessly absorbing harm. - One scholar noted, “God’s power is at its greatest not in his destruction of the wicked but in his taking all the wickedness of the earth into himself and giving back love.” *** How might that model of servant leadership shape your approach to settings where you can lead or influence others? (Jesus was likely drawing on Isaiah 53 here, as he also did in Luke 22:37.) Can you choose a specific way to lead or influence this week that aligns with Jesus’ Golden Rule?
Prayer
Lord Jesus, you redefined power itself by serving rather than dominating, giving your life rather than taking others’ lives. Help me live less in “demand” mode and more in “serve” mode. Help me consistently treat others the way I wish to be treated—with grace, generosity, and love. Amen.
GPS Insights
Clif Guy
Clif Guy, who serves as Information Technology Lead Director at Resurrection since 2003, wrote today's Insights. He came to faith and theology the hard way: his father, brother, sister, wife, niece, and cousin are all ordained ministers, which means he has been losing theological arguments his entire life. He is married to Laura, who pastors First Christian Church in Smithville.
Servants and Seat-Seekers
“Now when the other ten disciples heard about this, they became angry with James and John.” (Mark 10:41) I wonder why.
James and John had done something foolish, sure. They’d pulled Jesus aside and asked for the two best seats in the coming kingdom. Presumptuous, arrogant, embarrassing. But why did it make the other ten angry? Because both hubris and jealousy point to something deeper?
On this reading, I noticed something I hadn’t before.
Among the angry ten was a man named James. Not James the brother of John, not James the brother of Jesus, but James the son of Alphaeus. He appears in the gospels exactly four times, and every time, he’s in a list. He never speaks and is never spoken to. He takes no recorded action. We know nothing of how he was called to be a disciple. We know more about his mother, Mary, who stood at the foot of the cross and may have gone to the tomb, than we know about him. Another disciple shared his name, which didn’t help. History has called him James the Less, or James the Little, or James the Obscure (ouch!). He is the disciple nobody has ever heard of. The only reason he hasn’t been forgotten entirely is that the Gospel writers made lists.
Even that guy got angry. Something erupted in James the Less when those two hotheads tried to jump the line. The same thing that erupts in all of us when someone makes a power play.
I’m a leader, comfortable in front of people, confident. My ambition is obvious. I can feel it when I walk into a room. I know when I’m being seen and when I’m not, and I know which one I prefer. It’s easier for me to see myself in James and John, the Sons of Thunder, than in James the Less.
But Jesus addressed the whole room. Not just the open grabbers, but the seethers, and even those of us who say, “I’m not a leader, I just want to do my thing,” yet still feel it when our thing goes unnoticed, unappreciated, devalued.
None of us escapes the human condition. Jesus knew that. He didn’t ask us to stop wanting greatness. He didn’t ask us to hollow ourselves out. Instead, he asked us to direct our desire for greatness differently. This goes for all of us: the audacious two, the angry ten, even the one in the back who would have been completely forgotten but for a list.
As Jesus said, “Whoever wants to be great among you will be your servant. Whoever wants to be first among you will be the slave of all, for the Human One [or Son of Man] didn’t come to be served but rather to serve and to give his life to liberate many people.” (Mark 10:43b-45) Jesus asked it of us. And then he did it.
Whose face do you see when you imagine being great? At my best, I see Jesus.
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References
* N. T. Wright, Mark for Everyone. Louisville: Westminster John Knox Press, 2011, p. 144.
** Hamilton, Adam, Love to Stay (p. 75). Abingdon Press. Kindle Edition.
*** T. Desmond Alexander and Brian S. Rosner, ed., The New Dictionary of Biblical Theology. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2000, p. 222.
